This time of year, everyone is talking about New Year Resolutions. Some of us like making resolutions and others may feel like they aren't helpful. In fact, for some of us, making resolutions (and not being able to keep them) makes us very frustrated and unhappy and question them altogether. In the New York Times Smarter Living Guide, Jen A. Miller describes ways in which we can "make (and keep)" our resolutions. Here are a few excepts from her column. Click here to read the